Respect thy Fathers

After reading countless post stating, "Happy Father's Day to all my single mothers", I literally got thrown off on how disrespectful females can be. Ladies, how many status updates do you see on Mother's Day from single fathers stating, "Happy Mother's Day to all my single dads"? Zero!!!!!! If you have hard feelings for your own father, realize he is the reason you are here. So pray on it and respect him, but in no way am I saying you have to like them. Also no matter how you feel about your child's father, he is the reason you are blessed with your child today. Once again, you don't have to like him, but I recommend you respect him. Children pick up on a lot more than most of us realize. I listen to my daugther every day ask questions that most adults don't have the mental capacity to think about and ask. For some women, he wasn't an asshole when you choose to let him go in, or you just chose not to notice. For some women, it isn't even about the kids, its about what he did to you. He may be the best father in the world, but what he may have done to the woman, dictates what how you let him interact with the child. Some men, and I am not condoning this, cut there losses with the child because they don't wanna deal with the mother. The emotional struggle that some mothers put the fathers through is absolutely unnessacary, but to their defense, the men should be strong enough to deal with whatever for their child, since they had no problem getting in the bed with the mother. If you don't want to acknowledge your BD on this day, try saying nothing, silence is a very strong weapon. All in all, there is absolutely no excuse for a dead beat father, but at least show them some respect and respect for their day, because if not for them, you wouldn't have the blessing or blessings you have today.