Caught Up

I am sick and tired of seeing magazine and Internet posting stating "how to tell if they're cheating", or "5 clues to show you're not the one". So just for fun, I am going to give ways to get away with cheating and hide the more than obvious clues most people give away. Now I in no way believe in or condone cheating, I just wanna let out a few tricks of the trade.

1 - Don't be an idiot!!! I don't know if it's stupidity or arrogance that make people believe they won't get caught cheating on someone that knows them better than most. It's like lying to your mom, of course they know, they just don't wanna bring it up quite yet. So if you choose to be an idiot, do an assessment on what you may possibly lose before you go "thrill" seeking.

2 - Don't be emotional!!! When you have emotional extremes, that is a dead giveaway. When you can't or refuse to tell your other a legit reason to why or what is making you super up or down, it is a major red flag. So when that person on the side gets to you in a positive or negative way, keep it to yourself, because your other knows when they are or aren't pleasing you.

3 - Stay stable!!! A huge mistake cheaters make is either letting their other know too much, or know to little. When you give your other free reign into your phone, email, and where abouts, they feel they can do what they want when they want. That opens your other to answer your phone when it rings, check your messages before you do and so on. On the other side of that, being too private is never good for any relationship. If you start hiding your phone, leaving the room to talk on the phone, deleting messages and having gaps in your text conversations, that shows you ain't about the right.


These are just the top reasons on getting yourself caught up, but the best way to never get caught up is not cheating at all...